Bad Family Quotes For Those Who Have Selfish Family

1. “Everybody’s family has problems.”
2. “Pick a dysfunction and it’s a family problem.”
3. “You are not part of a toxic family if you walk away.”
4. “I grew up in a dysfunctional family.”- Melissa Gilbert
5. “I was born into this family and all I got was a bad attitude.”                                            
6. “If you can stand up to your family, you can stand up to anyone.”
7. “A busy mother makes slothful daughters.” – Portuguese Proverb
8. “The human race is one big dysfunctional family.”- Robert Barron
9. “Family isn’t about whose blood you have. It’s about who you care about.”
10. “You didn’t choose your family, but you can choose how to define family.”
11. “I don’t wish I was born in a different family; I wish I was born in a real family.”
12. “Calling this a family doesn’t make it a loving home, it just makes it a hateful lie.”
13. “I like when people tell me about their family issues, I feel like I know them better.”

• “Love them, but don’t let their drama affect your life.” – Anonymous
• “The best revenge against toxic family members is not fighting back.” – Anonymous
• “Love them from a distance. Pray for them, wish them well, but don’t allow them to abuse you.” – Kimber Waul
• “If the family you choose before your birth no longer supports your path towards fulfilling your true destiny, it is never too late to find a new tribe.” – Anthon St. Maarten
• “We arrive and depart this life alone. Every moment in-between is a unique opportunity to experience as much love and belonging as we can possibly muster. Instead, we obsess over petty differences and turn our backs on those we are supposed to love.” – Anthon St. Maarten
• “When we start life without knowing healthy love—including what it is, what it looks like, and what it feels like, we find it incredibly challenging to find healthy love later in life. After all, we don’t even know what we are looking for.” – Sherrie Campbell
• “My friend, you are not alone. No matter what you’ve suffered, the abuse was not your fault. You didn’t cause someone to hurt you. Not as an innocent child, teenager, or as an adult. Let that sink in. It’s not your fault.” – Dana Arcuri
• “A child should never feel as if they need to earn a mother’s love.” – Sherrie Campbell
• “You can tread me in this very dirt, but still, like dust, I’ll rise.” – Anonymous
• “Because ‘I love you’ is not the reason for manipulation or abuse.” – Anonymous
• “Sometimes you need to give up on people, not because you don’t care, but because they don’t.” – Anonymous
• “Let’s get out of the habit of telling people, ‘that’s still your mom, your dad, or your sister’, toxic is toxic. You are allowed to walk away from people that constantly hurt you.” – Bynnada
• “Ask yourself, ‘will you do this to your family? If not, why let them do this to you?’” – Anonymous
• “Love yourself enough to walk away from lies and dramas.” – Anonymous
• “You don’t heal in a place where you get hurt.” – Anonymous

• “Brother or sister has no meaning if they treat each other like their worst enemies.” – Anonymous
• “The people I looked up to for comfort are the ones who make me depressed.” – Anonymous
• “It’s so sad that even people closely related by blood can betray each other.” – Anonymous
• “How can you say you are my family when all you did is malign me as if I am your worst enemy?” – Anonymous
• “I do not hate my toxic family members. I also do not need them.” – Sherrie Campbell
• “All I wanted from you was love and acceptance, but all I was given was hate and rejection.”   – Anonymous
• “It’s just that, you will never be good enough for certain people no matter how much love you give them.” – Anonymous
• “A family that treats you like an enemy is no family to be proud of at all.” – Anonymous
• “It’s so disheartening to see people who are supposed to love you—use you for their selfish purposes.” – Anonymous
• “A dysfunctional family is not a family at all, it’s a toxic relationship parading as a requirement.” – Anonymous
• “A good family will see your boundaries and move around them, a toxic family won’t even realize they’re there.” – Anonymous
• “Toxic people do not think, operate, or play by the same rules we do, and our failure to recognize this sets us up by default for manipulation and unhappiness.” – Sherrie Campbell
• “Dysfunctional families despise the truth-tellers and whistle-blowers. They are all about admiring the Emperor’s new clothes, and they turn on anyone who dares to mention the nakedness.” – Sherrie Campbell

1. “Some of the most poisonous people come disguised as friends and family.”
2. “Tragically, your worst enemies will always come from your own household.”
3. “You may be my family but I won’t let you get away with your toxic behavior.”
4. “The people I looked up to for comfort are the ones who make me depressed.”
5. “Not everyone deserves full access to you that included toxic family members.”
6. “Blood relations cease to have their use if people related by it behave otherwise.”
7. “Calling this a family doesn’t make it a loving home, it just makes it a hateful lie.”
8. “Fake family is like shadows they follow you in the sun but leave you in the dark.”
9. “They say they love you but they treat you like the worst criminal on earth. Shame.”
10. “Ask yourself, “will you do this to your family?” If not, why let them do this to you?”
11. “Cutting people out of my life doesn’t mean I hate them. It means I respect myself.”
12. “Just because someone gives you life doesn’t mean they will love you the right way.”
13. “Toxic parents care more about how you make them look than how you actually feel.”

Fear-based parenting is the surest way to create intimidated children. Tim Kimmel

Good parenting gives headaches but bad parenting gives heartaches. Shiv Khera

There are no illegitimate children – only illegitimate parents. Leon R. Yankwich

What’s so sad is when we’re younger, if you have a bad parent, that is normal to you and that’s what you think of as healthy. Jennifer Lawrence

If mental abuse was a punishable crime, a lot of parents would be in jail serving a long term. Maddy Malhotra

Too bad for any parent who has become accustomed to the ruling by force, because at some point the kids just get too big to slap around. Barbara Ehrenreich

Remember, you are not managing an inconvenience; You are raising a human being. Kittie Frantz

As selfishness and complaint pervert the mind, so love with its joy clears and sharpens the vision.

I swear, by my life and my love of it, that I will never live for the sake of another man, nor ask another man to live for mine.

Parents raise children then grow old, and their children forget the things their old parents did for them because their brains don’t remember before they grew selfish.

Selfish persons are incapable of loving others, but they are not capable of loving themselves either.

Selfishness comes from poverty in the heart, from the belief that love is not abundant.

Selfishness must always be forgiven you know because there is no hope of a cure.

That man who lives for self alone lives for the meanest mortal known.

There are many selfish people who are extremely original, then they take those pure ideas and use them to raise themselves up, that is an insincere move.

1. “I was born into this family but all I got was hate in a place where I was supposed to get love and acceptance.”
2. “Love them from a distance. Pray for them, wish them well, but don’t allow them to abuse you.” – Kimber Waul
3. “Some of the hardest people to cut off are family members. But sometimes they are the main ones that need to go.”
4. “Sometimes, Satan uses the people closest to you to hinder you from getting the best God has in store for your life.”
5. “Refuse to inherit dysfunction. Learn new ways of living instead of repeating what you lived through.” – Thema Davis
6. “The more dysfunctional, the more some family members seek to control the behavior of others.” – David W. Earle
7. “A good family will see your boundaries and move around them, a toxic family won’t even realize they’re there.”
8. “In the process of letting go, you will lose many things from the past but you will find yourself.” – Deepak Chopra
9. “A child should never feel as if they need to earn a mother’s love.” – Sherrie Campbell
10. “I do not hate my toxic family members. I also do not need them.” – Sherrie Campbell
11. Being a parent does not give you an excuse for bad manners. Rosalind Wiseman

• “All I wanted from you was love and acceptance but all I was given was hate and rejection.”
• “Families get dysfunctional if they are built of a faulty foundation of hate and resentment.”
• “Learn to cut your losses fast if you realize you are just being used for their selfish motives.”
• “If all they bring into your life is pain and misery, you need to start cutting your losses fast.”
• “You have the right to put up a fence between you and your family, and the choice whether to include a gate.”

• “It’s so sad that even people closely related by blood can betray each other.”
• “I watched as my family tree crumbled apart, leaving me as its only branch.”
• “I know every family has its problems. But I admire those that stick together.”
• “Absolutely no one can screw you over quite as well as members of your own family.”
• “The strength of a family, like the strength of an army, lies in its loyalty to each other. ”
• “If you do not come from a healthy family, but you should do your best to ensure that a healthy family emerges from you.”
• “Just because someone is “family” doesn’t mean you have to tolerate lies, chaos, drama, manipulation, and disrespect.”
• “Toxic people condition you to believe that the family problem isn’t the abuse itself, but instead your reactions to the abuse.”
• “Bad families can’t give you love because love can’t come from people who don’t love themselves in the first place.”
• “When someone is rude and toxic, remember it’s not about you. It’s a reflection of their inner strength.” – Bernadette Logue
• “Blood doesn’t make you family. Some of the most demonic and demeaning people in your life share your DNA.” – Temi Ade